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Raphael’s Memorial Film
Raphael 的紀念片

Ten weeks. One nine-year-old. The moments he found his own words.

十週裡,一個九歲的孩子,找到自己的話的那些時刻。

English & 中文 subtitles · 11 minutes · shared with his family’s permission · 經家人同意分享

What this is這是什麼

In the 3E Movie class, children watch a movie together and say what they actually see. Every child gets a film made only of their own moments—the things they said, the way they answered, the first time they hosted, the day they found a sentence that was theirs.

3E 電影課裡,孩子們一起看電影,說出自己真正看見的。每個孩子都有一支只用自己的片段做成的紀念片:他說過的話、他怎麼回應、第一次當主持人、找到一句屬於自己的話的那一天。

This is Raphael’s. Nothing in it was scripted. We only gathered what he said.

這是 Raphael 的。沒有任何一句是演的,我們只是把他說過的話收在一起。

Four things he said他說過的四句話

Week 1 · 第 1 堂
“I finally understand why I sometimes feel so irritable—it’s because I was being controlled. Next week, I really, really want to come.”
「我也終於知道為什麼我感覺有時候很煩躁,就是因為我被控制了。下個禮拜,特別特別想來。」
Week 3 · 第 3 堂
“A child knows what they want to do, so they don’t call for someone else—they go and do it.”
「兒童知道自己想做什麼,就不會去喊別人,然後他就會自己去做。」
Week 4 · 第 4 堂
“The thing I’m happiest about today is that I got to be the host. I wanted to know what hosting feels like—and it feels pretty good.”
「我今天最高興的事就是我可以當主持人。想體驗一下主持人是什麼感受,現在看來感覺還挺好的。」
Week 6 · 第 6 堂
“I’m busy right now and don’t want to talk. Come talk with me a little later.”
「我現在很忙,不想和你說話,你等一下再來和我交流吧。」

What we noticed我們看見的

When the adults stayed quiet and gave him room, he found the words himself—he told us why he came, explained the difference between a baby and a child in his own way, hosted the class, and designed a sentence to tell his mom when he needs space.

當大人安靜下來、給他空間,他自己找到了話:他說出為什麼來上課,用自己的方式講嬰兒和兒童的差別,當了主持人,還替媽媽設計了一句「我需要空間」的話。

Children are not waiting for us to teach them. They are waiting for room.

孩子不是在等我們教他們,他們在等一個空間。


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